CHAPTER IV AUTO-SUGGESTION AND MENTAL DISCIPLINE
Auto-suggestion, which strictly speaking is not a very-good
term, although in general use, means a suggestion originating within the
individual, and not coming from without. It may be either a suggestion from our
conscious self to our subconscious self—a self-imposed narrowing of the field
of consciousness to one idea, by holding a given thought in the mental focus,
to the exclusion of all other thoughts, as, for instance, when I concentrate
before going to sleep on the one thought that I shall rise the next morning
punctually at seven o'clock; or it may be a suggestion arising from the
subconsciousness, owing to hereditary ancestral tendencies or acquired
experiences, and dictating to the consciousness, such as the fear suggested to
most of us when we sleep in a lonely situated empty house.
One of the most potent factors in man's existence is auto-suggestion.
Thoughts that are dwelt upon strongly soon recede from consciousness to
subconsciousness, from whence, without any effort from our conscious self, they
nevertheless influence our actions and determine our progress or retrogression,
our success or failure. Of the great good that may come from conscious
self-suggestion, the examples of those great men who have, through the
self-suggested ideal that moved them, extracted a gigantic life-work from a
grudging brain, speak to us with lofty eloquence.
Every man can develop the power of determining, controlling his
thoughts, the power of determining what types of thought he shall and what
types he shall not entertain. For let us never fail to remember this fact, that
every earnest effort along any line makes the end aimed at just a little easier
for each succeeding effort. Owing to our wonderful reflex nervous system,
whenever we do a certain thing in a certain way it is easier to do the same
thing the next time, and the next, and the next, until, finally, it is done
with scarcely any effort on our part at all, and it has become our second
nature. And thus we get into a habit. Life is, after all, merely a series of
habits, and it lies entirely within one's own power to determine just what that
series shall be. It is true that everybody is born with certain predispositions,
and that these predispositions influence very strongly the early formation of
habits of thought. But the fact remains that the character is built up by
long-continued habits of thought.
Our dominating thoughts determine our dominating actions. The acts
repeated crystallise themselves into the habit. The aggregate of our habits is
our character. Whatever, then, you would have your acts, you must look well to
the character of the thought you entertain. Whatever act you would not do—habit
you would not acquire—you must look well to it that you do not entertain the
type of thought that will give birth to this act. Our character is thus
dependent on the thoughts we entertain.
By the thoughts we think we create an atmosphere around us, which other people
are influenced by. If we continually think thoughts that are good, our life
will suggest goodness; if we continually think evil thoughts, our life
will suggest evil. If we are sad, it is a sad world; if we are happy, it is a
happy world. A great deal depends upon the individual himself for weal or woe;
to a large extent we create our own conditions—the heaven or hell we have to
live in.
"If the thought-forces sent out by any particular life are those of
hatred or jealousy, or malice, or faultfinding, or criticism, or scorn, these
same thought-forces are aroused and sent back from others, so that one is
affected not only by reason of the unpleasantness of having such thoughts from
others, but they also in turn affect one's own mental states, and through these
his own bodily conditions, so that, so far as even the welfare of self is
concerned, the indulgence in thoughts and emotions of this nature are most
expensive, most detrimental, most destructive.
" If, on the other hand, the thought-forces sent out be those of love,
of sympathy, of kindness, of cheer and goodwill, these same forces are aroused
and sent back, so that their pleasant ennobling, warming and life-giving
effects one feels and is influenced by; and so again, so far even as the
welfare of self is concerned, there is nothing more desirable, more valuable
and life-giving. There comes from others, then, exactly what one sends to and
hence calls forth from them." (B. W. Trine.)
All this sounds easy enough, but the question is sure to be asked—If so
much depends on our own thoughts and auto-suggestions, why is there not more
happiness around us ? The answer is—Because most people have not their thoughts
under control. They
lack mental
discipline and concentration. In order to concentrate we must be masters
of our brain, and not allow the brain to master us. The brains of most men are
undisciplined and unreliable.
Let anyone try to think of something for an hour without his mind "
wandering." He will not succeed for five minutes; his brain will run round and
round on all sorts of subjects but the one he intended to concentrate on. Most
people think they have not got enough brain, whereas they have not got enough
power to keep in order such brains as they have. Instead of having their
thoughts and feelings under their control, the thoughts and feelings spring up
unawares and control them. Thoughts seem to come when they like, seem to go
when they like; worse still, the brain is apt to forget, and at other times a
thought comes like a ghost unexpectedly just when you are in the midst of
merriment. How many men have learned to discipline their brain? They may have
trained their hands or eyes, and even their tongues, but not their brain. As a
popular writer has put it: "Fancy a man not being master in his own
house!" The brain must be disciplined, and learn the habit of obedience;
and it can learn the habit of obedience by the practice of concentration.
"Once you can concentrate at will, you are in possession of the power to
switch your brain on and off in a particular subject, as you switch electricity
on and off in a particular room." The brain will get used to the straight
paths of obedience. And—a remarkable phenomenon—it will, by the mere practice
of obedience, become less forgetful and more effective.
It is by mental discipline that we prevent just those
diseases for which hypnotism and suggestion are the best cure.
"What is insanity but a condition in which our thoughts and feelings are
no longer under voluntary control? The mental condition of hysteria, the morbid
doubts and fears of neurasthenia, abnormal impulses, perverted habits and all
the other troubles, for which hypnotism may be applied with success, are
largely due to the same lack of control over the powers which constitute mind
and character. We are all subject to false suggestions at times, both
from within and without,
but those who have learned discipline will keep the false thought in bondage,
until it loses its force. The maniac, however, nurses it and allows it to
distort all his other impressions, so that he gets into a maze from which he
cannot extricate himself, and we have to come to his assistance.
Thus by an act of auto-suggestion a person of shy, suspicious and
reserved nature, who imagines that people are thinking or speaking ill of him,
or going out of their way to do him harm, nurses his habit of moody suspicion
until it grows to be a delusion that he is the victim of a conspiracy; he then
sees evidence of it in the innocent gestures and words of friends with whom he
holds intercourse, of servants who wait upon him, and of persons who pass him
in the streets; these he misinterprets entirely, seeing in them secret signs,
mysterious threats, criminal accusations. It may be pointed out to him that the
words and gestures were perfectly natural and innocent, and that no one but
himself can perceive the least offence in them; his belief is not touched by
the demonstration, for his senses are enslaved by the dominant idea in his subconscious mind, and work only in its service. At first the patient is
conscious of the whisperings of his subconsciousness, and protests and
struggles against them. That is the time when we can help him. But if nothing
is done, the whisperings gradually become realities to him, and he will act
upon them.
Because of the subconscious mind ruling in the insane, the patient when
he recovers, that is to say, when his conscious state becomes active again, has
often no recollection of the incidents of his illness. On recovery, or even in
a temporary lucid interval, all remembrance . of the disordered state has
passed away, and that, too, beyond the capacity of recall—nothing but a misty,
hazy remembrance of some condition which has been passed through remains, just
as one finds it impossible to re-instate the details of a dream, the reality of
which was at the time vivid in consciousness.
If—as does happen—a patient who recovers from a condition of insanity is
able to remember, i.e., to recall, some of the particulars which he
experienced when insane, he must, of course, be said to have some degree of
consciousness of it; but it is as impossible for him to recall the true
consciousness and the whole series of processes, as it is for the insane person
to remember the true consciousness of his sound mental state, and, therefore,
he is little able when in the one state to be responsible for what he did in
the other. The sane man is no more responsible for what he does when insane
than is the insane person for what he does when sane.
Some normal people, especially artists, have such vivid mental
representation, can conceive an idea so vividly, that it may become a visual
image. Similarly,
the hallucinations of the insane arise by their imagination being worked
up to a state of vision; but whereas the artist can dismiss the image called up
in this way when no longer wanted, the insane are unable to dismiss it, and it
often continues to haunt them.
There is always a danger in allowing the subconscious mind to usurp
complete control of the mental organisation, or allowing the mind to be
controlled by one dominant impression, which subordinates all others. Thus, by
continually thinking and talking of sickness and disease, we gradually impress
the disease picture upon our brain, the brain transmits it to our body—so if grows
from an impression to a real sickness.
Similarly, people bring about their own misery and waste their existence
by lamenting and brooding over past misfortunes and past mistakes. The past
cannot be altered, and we had better rub a great sponge over it; only the
future is plastic, and can be partly predicted and prepared for. To be sure,
the past should not be forgotten in the sense that we are unwilling to learn
from it; it should be the teacher for the future.
Hopelessness, fear and depression are not merely moods and sensations of
no consequence, but are terrible realities, and the more we indulge in them,
the more they become impressed upon our surroundings as well as our
subconsciousness, and the more permanent the deadly mark upon our life. The old
aphorism that happiness is the best of tonics is profoundly true; and the power
of hope in curing disease and overcoming misfortune is as well known as the
deadly influence of despair.
There are people who magnify the obstacles which
rise before them, who are discouraged by the smallest failures, to whom
the slightest happenings are catastrophies. They are overcome by a telegram
before having learned its contents; they read between the lines of a letter,
and ascribe to any occurrence whatever the least probable and the most terrible
causes. Others are given to anxious, uneasy observation of their body,
producing a crowd of auto-suggestions of symptoms of diseases, of pains and
sensations of all sorts, exactly as though a real organic trouble were present.
Thus human suggestibility reinforces and even creates our sensations. Conscious
effort and a fixed determination are necessary to overcome such wretched and
mistaken existence.
The auto-suggestion arising from our inner or subconsciousness accounts
for much self-deception. For instance, the wine which we pour out of a dusky
bottle bearing the label of a celebrated vineyard always seems better than it
really is; a connoisseur among smokers will let his judgment be influenced if
he recognises the make of the cigar that he is smoking. Some people feel
already sea-sick when the ship is still lying motionless in the harbour. It is
also well known that the auto-suggestion of fear in the case of epidemics
renders one more liable to contagion. On the other hand, auto-suggestion has
apparently rendered other persons immune from disease.
If we see in a place, where we might naturally suppose it possible for a
cat to be, a grey mass about the size of that animal, we do not often take the
trouble to test this perception, and we affirm the existence of the cat with a
conviction which would draw other persons into error.
Question eye-witnesses concerning the details of some event at which
they were present, and you will see that they have all seen differently,
because they have all looked through the spectacles of their understanding,
distorted by preconceived opinions and auto-suggestions. Judges and lawyers
know how little credence they often can give to the declaration of even
disinterested witnesses. To this category belong also the cases of
self-accusation, in which people accuse themselves of a crime which they have
not committed, giving the most minute details, and applying to the police-court
for punishment. One also recognises in the same kind of people the occurrence of
false accusations against other persons.
Great liars must have the capacity of suggestion and auto-suggestion to
an extraordinary extent. These persons lie to themselves and to others
continually, until they are no longer capable of distinguishing clearly between
that which has been experienced and that which has been invented. They cheat
and make up things, either half consciously or quite unconsciously. They are
instinctive liars, and are incapable of speaking the truth, even if they are
put on their oath. The pathological liar confuses the products of his fancy
with realities. False memories constantly disturb his reproductive faculty.
Since he plunges with his whole attention into the deceptive creations of his
fancy, in such a way that they become realities to him, he has an assured
appearance, and he presents his humbugs and swindles so ingenuously and
naturally, with such an innocent expression or with such unfeigned enthusiasm,
that he succeeds again and again in convincing his fellow-men, where a conscious liar, who coolly and clearly
measures his words, in constant fear of contradicting himself or being trapped,
meets with instinctive mistrust. In the consciousness of the common or normal
liar, two trains of thought flow beside each other—the thought of the truth and
the thought of the lie—and they trip each other up. In the brain of the
pathological liar all is unified, and so he can carry through the most
magnificent swindles artistically and with inner conviction. Thus he drags a
multitude of credulous souls with him to ruin. The public believe blindly in
his alluring portrayals, his poetic effusions, his fairy tales, until at last
some chance or the reflection of a thoughtful man brings the end with panic,
and usually a sensation in the courts. Then, as though wakening from a dream,
the pathological liar collapses, for the moment almost as astonished and
dismayed as his victims—only to begin soon again, for he cannot help himself.
Enough has been said to prove that suggestion, both from within and
without, is a process constantly at work amongst us. We have observed the laws
by which it is governed, and shall now examine the methods of employing it for
practical purposes,
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