CHAPTER II
THE NATURE OP SUGGESTION
Practical psychology reveals the fact that the mind of
man is largely subconscious and that this subconscious state is highly
amenable to suggestion.
The subconscious mind is capable both of receiving and giving
suggestions. It receives suggestions not only from external sources, but from
the conscious mind itself, and it gives suggestions not only from our own past
experiences, but the transmitted experiences from our forefathers. Looked at in
this light, heredity may be regarded as a mass of potent suggestions
transmitted from our ancestors. We do not inherit ready-made qualities, such as
virtues and vices; we only get from our parents more or less well-constituted
brains, capable of reacting more or less promptly and accurately to the various
stimuli which cause its activity. Suppose, for instance, an infant to be born
with a predominant tendency to the feeling of fear; that feeling, as reason
develops, will become intellectualised, and if no counteracting tendency is
present, it will form the ruling idea for his guidance, it will act as a potent
suggestion, and his characteristic will be circumspection. And so all
our deep-seated feelings and instincts can become intellectual qualities, which
we think we make for ourselves, whereas in reality they are hereditary
suggestions to determine our conduct.
An infant may be born with a brain magnificently
constructed for the display of various intellectual capacities. Exercise
will develop these inherited energies, but in the first instance there must be
the character to give the inducement for exercise. That inducement may come
through external influences, or itmay arise from within through some
inherited disposition that gives rise to auto-suggestion, some ideas which
determine the conduct.
Parents are often anxious as to whether their defects will be inherited
by their children, and forget entirely that they can mould the character largely
by their constant example, which acts through the potency of incessant
suggestion. Next to the parental influence, the suggestions received during
school-life have the greatest influence on the formation of the future character.
Children are almost purely subjective; and no one needs to be told how
completely a suggestion, true or false, will take control of their minds. Their
good manners are easily destroyed by bad company, and their minds can be
corrupted by what they see, hear and read. Often a child is frightened at dusk
by someone pretending to be a ghost or the devil. The fright) and the image of
the ghost remain in the memory, appear in dreams, and terrify the child
afterwards on every occasion; for now the slightest hint or the most insignificant
incident gives new life to the memory. The child does not fear to go into a
room because it is dark, but because he has a mental representation of danger.
In consequence of it all, there may arise hallucinations and imperative ideas
and phobias and hysterical attacks.
Looked at in this manner, we are a mass of suggestions—suggestions from
within and suggestions from without. One can overcome the other, hut it may be
laid down at once, that external suggestions act on us more readily when
they are in harmony with our internal ones, when they are in harmony with
those auto-suggestions which conform with our natural character. "When
the subconscious mind is confronted by two opposing suggestions, the hereditary
auto-suggestion and a suggestion from another person, the stronger one
necessarily prevails. Thus a man with settled moral principles will
successfully resist the suggestions of crime or immorality; for moral
principles constitute auto-suggestions, the strength of which is proportionate
to that of his moral character.
Suggestion in the widest sense can be direct or indirect, but direct
persuasion is not usually regarded as suggestion; only the indirect process is.
As Prof. Bechterew has cleverly said: "Suggestion enters into the
understanding by the back stairs, while logical persuasion knocks at the front
door."
Suggestion, in the more restricted sense, is a process
of communication of an idea to the subconscious mind in an unobtrusive manner,
carrying conviction, when consciously there is no inclination for its
acceptance and logically there are no adequate grounds.
There are people who scarcely ever act from motives originating within
themselves, but whose entire lives are lived out in obedience to the suggested
ideas and feelings of others. They can be influenced even in the normal waking
state to assume the existence of a certain determination.
All persons are more or less amenable to
suggestion in the ordinary waking condition. This is illustrated in many familiar ways, such
as gaping involuntarily, even against one's strenuous attempts to avoid it, on
seeing another yawn; heating time unconsciously on hearing the measured throb
of martial music; becoming wildly excited for no other reason than that one's
companions are panic-stricken; and, contrariwise, having one's fears allayed by
the tranquil appearance of his associates in a terrible emergency. With many
people the mere statement that they are blushing is enough to produce a flow of
blood to the face; the repeated assurance that they are warm or cold will tend
to make them feel warmer or colder; the mention or the sight of certain little
insects, which inhabit the bodies of uncleanly persons, seldom fails to make
the skin itch uncomfortably.
Suggestions almost invariably appeal to the
feelings, and we
are always more willingly and readily influenced by our feelings than by our
reason. A suggestion causes a feeling to spring up from the subconscious state
of the mind, in response to the exciting cause coming from without. Words in
themselves are not really suggestive; they possess no magic power. All their
force and efforts depend upon the associated feeling. The more feeling we throw
into our words action and manner, the better they will suggest.
Suggestions convey ideas, and ideas are symbols of something thought or felt.
The majority of ideas held in the mind of the race arise from feeling.
People may not understand things, but they have experienced feelings or
emotions regarding them, and have consequently formed many ideas therefrom. They do not
always know the reason why an idea is held by them; they know only that
they feel it that way. And the majority of people are moved, swayed, and act by
reasons of induced feelings, rather than by results of reasoning.
When suggestion acts through the association of ideas, it is based upon
the acquired impressions of the race, by which certain words, actions, manners,
tones and appearances are associated with certain previously experienced
feelings.
It is true that suggestions may accompany an appeal to the reason or
judgment of the person influenced, and, indeed, are generally so used; but,
strictly speaking, they constitute an appeal to a part of the mind entirely
removed from reasoning and judgment. They are emotional first, last, and all
the time.
Many personal appeals which are apparently made to reason, are really
made to the emotional side. One may subtly insinuate into an argument or
conversation an appeal to the feelings or emotions of the hearer by an ideal
indirectly conveyed. Such idea will be "felt" by the listener, who
will accept it into his mind and before long he will regard it as one of his
own thoughts—he will make it his own. He will think that he "thought"
it, whereas, really, he simply "feels" it, and the feeling is
induced.
Suggestion may act through obedience to a
person in authority, whether
real, assumed, or self-constituted. Reason is quiescent because of our faith in
his authority. The authority induces the mental states, for such people by
"boldly asserting" and "plausibly maintaining." Some people
will obey any authoritative tone and manner. They are most effective on those
Who have never used their own wits and resources in
life, but
depended upon others for orders and instructions.The degree of suggestibility along
these lines
decreases as we ascend among people who have had to
"do things"for
themselves, and who have not dependend on others so much.
A suggestion is mure likely to be successful if the
idea is introduced
by a person who is trusted, loved, or
feared or under circumstances that inspire these sentiments,or in n
tone of voice or with a manner that the
subject has always
associated with ideas that are to be
acted on or
believed. One or other of
these qualities,
or more often a
combination of them, is an invariable
characteristic of the person who is suggestive.
All have noticed that some individuals seem to have a
"winning way"them.
and are able to induce others to fall into their way of thinking or desires, and to
do what they wished done.
Notonly on the stage, but in the pulpit, on the
platform, and in the councils of the nation is quality
of voice all important.
Few men are convinced at
once by logical argument, but their feelings are turned
in favour of a
speaker who with his own varying tone
of voice can
appeal to the emotions of his audience.
Thus quality of voice counts for more than we suspect
in the relations of daily life.
The speaker's power to
move us depends upon his being able to create in us the
feeling by which he is or pretends to be moved, and
thus cause similar
vibrations in our own nervous
system. In this respect we are like so many musical
glasses. We
ring when we are in unison with the
exciting object, but not otherwise.
Only words that come from the heart can reach
the heart. For this
reason a speaker who speaks out of the fulness of his heart will be more
suggestive, will create more nerve vibrations amongst his hearers than another
man who has the same amount of feeling, but cannot convey what he feels in the
same manner.
Domestic and other quarrels often arise not because of the words spoken,
but because of the voice in which they are conveyed. Thus I recollect the
defence of a person who, when accused of having struck a man's face who was
wanting in politeness to him, replied to the police magistrate: "It is not
what he said, but the nasty way he said it." This had aroused his
indignation, and the feeling was quickly carried into action.
The more one thinks of it the more plainly it appears that in all
regions of thought—religious, scientific, artistic, literary—the pivot on which
everything turns is that of personality. What we mean by it, what importance we
attach to it, colours our every idea on every subject. The personal is the one thing that
interests.
Suggestion may act through imitation. Man is an imitative animal. Many of
us imitate without reflection. It is only when our attention is roused to the
habit by a third person that we become really conscious of it and reason upon
it, with the result that we give way. Few of us can for long be with people who
have peculiar habits of movement without feeling a tendency to imitate them. As
is well known, stammering is frequently communicated from one child to another.
In matters that are not of vital importance to the conduct of life, such as
fashions in clothes and
in food, we
slavishly imitate our neighbors; and even in weightier matters, such as systems of belief or moral standards, we tend to adopt without question those
that we find around us.
Suggestion may act through repetition. Repeated
shrugs, sneers, and insinuations of gossip
have destroyed many a reputation. "Constant dripping will
wear away the
hardest stone." There
is weakened resistance through repetition of the attack, the force of
habit.We have heard certain
things affirmed over
and over again,
until we have come to accept them as
veritable facts, notwithstanding that we possess not
the slightest personal knowledge of, or any logical
proof concerning them. Thus
public opinion is
Reason and judgement must be in abeyance in order
that a suggestion should act; hence suggestion may act
by the suddenness with which it is made, which gives
notime for observation and deduction, and causes a
suggestion to be accepted and immediately acted upon.
Tell a lady comfortably seated in an armchair
that
there is a mouse crawling up her dress, and her mind
will be immediately filled with the idea to the
exclusion of' everything else, and she will instantly jump
up. The idea through its very
suddenness overflows
intoaction at once before
critical ideas are able to
arise.In addition, the idea, a repellent one, by its
suddenness gives a shock to the mental system, and
tends to render dissociation easy. In this case, therefore, the conditions are (1) rapidity of presentation,
hich does not give the contrariant ideas time to arise;
combined with (2) the shock of presentation, which
helps in hinder them from
making a protest.
The ability to maintain a passive state has a predisposing effect. There
are many persons who are by nature given to passive submission to external
influences, and therefore in a highly susceptible condition to every form of
influence from without. But it would be a mistake to consider the disposition
to suggestion a sign of weakness of will. The cleverest men, because of their
capacity to forced concentration of attention, excluding all other external
impressions, are often the most susceptible. This ability to give the thoughts
a certain prescribed direction is partly natural capacity and partly a matter
of training and habit. Of course, there are men who possess a natural
credulity, and are not disposed to make conscious logical deductions, and many
men will believe what they want to hear, or what they have expected to happen.
We cannot escape the influence of suggestion. Life is full of it.
"We are constantly influencing others, or influenced by them.
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